Last year, more than 30,000 organizations in 68 countries came together to celebrate #GivingTuesday. Since its founding in 2012, #GivingTuesday has inspired giving around the world, resulting in larger donations, volunteer hours, and activities that bring about real change in communities.
We invite you to join the movement and help get the word out to give this December.
Some ideas include:
1. Organize a campaign that showcases Amor. We encourage you to send a personal e-mail to your network and friends and tell them why you believe in the work that Amor has done for the past 35 years and how excited you are about what we are doing together.
2. Participate in our online Blab conversation. On Giving Tuesday, we’ll be hosting a series of live panels, called Blabs, all day, with several different keynote speakers and thinkers. Subscribe to the one that best fits your personality to listen in, or join the conversations!
The Impact of Better Housing in Mexico
Gifactivis vs. Slactivist. Why do we Give?
What are you doing to impact your corner of the world?
Millenials vs. Gen X-ers. Are we really that different?
3. Use the hashtag #GivingTuesday and #comebuildhope on your social media accounts to talk about Amor and other organizations/causes you support.
– Take a selfie holding a sign saying why you support Amor, or post a photo of yourself volunteering. Create a short video on why you give. This is a great time to show off those fabulous pictures of your last mission trip.
– On December 1st, let everyone on your social networks know that you support Amor.
– Showcase how many homes you have participated in building and invite people to volunteer.
Remember to use the hashtag #GivingTuesday & #comebuildhope and tag @AmorMinistries on everything you share on social media. The most active hopebuilder will receive a surprise from Amor in the mail.
By giving on this day, we are uniting our forces with amazing organizations around the globe to make a better world.
I’m tired of the mentality expressed in the latest blog by blogger Kristen To The Middle School Girls At The Pool Who Told My Son He Was Hot. The same attitude that shames women for behavior encouraged in boys, or at least defended. No, women are not disrespecting themselves because they are showing skin or making advances on men, and it’s not their job to keep anyone’s son’s pure.
Her boy in the pool was probably shirtless, yet the author has the hypocrisy to comment on the girls bikini (if mistaken, my apologies, at least there is congruency). Misogyny is alive and well when an otherwise social justice writer has the audacity to write such a shameful post that propagates language that encourages violence towards women.
As a mother of a thirteen-year-old myself, my job is to teach my son to reject not women, but the beliefs that put them down.
Women are not bitches because they speak up. They are not disrespecting themselves because they are showing too much skin. They are not dumb if they are pretty, but they are not ugly just because they don’t conform to magazine beauty.
My son, please don’t objectify women, but do appreciate them, learn from them, be their friend. Listen, don’t judge them. They are valuable, and like all humans they got a story, respect it.
Women are not drama queens. They are humans who get to express their feelings freely (newsflash: you are too, and it will make you a better human if you learn to express them as well). If you feel tempted, it is because YOU ARE A SEXUAL BEING not because they are “too something,” DEAL WITH IT and remember there are consequences of which you are responsible for.
Treat women with respect and fairly. But remember, you were not placed on this earth to be their judge, their saviour or their knight. And if you really want to be a man of character become a feminist.
He’s far from knowing this well. He’s only thirteen. My son will make many decisions that do not represent who I am and what values I want for him. He is his own person after all, and some lessons will be lost to him. Just like any lessons the parents of this girl might have tried to pass on to her (Assuming she’s not been taught “better” is a terribly judgemental thing to do).
Now I know that WE ARE THAT FAMILY (The name of Kristen’s blog) stands for “we are that family that judges other families and will have no problem judging your daughter and will be too blind to recognize that my son’s response was too cruel towards a middle school girl BECAUSE I teach my son to show contempt to women… And I am boasting that he’s learning the lesson well.”
My family is taking part on Amor’s Advent daily devotional to prepare for Christmas.
The first disruption for 24 Days of Disrupt was to “Create your Family Mission Statement.”
It was weird at first, but after watching the videos on the blog, it became a lot less intimidating.
We used the family rules poster we have for ideas; lingo from the 7 habits that Mia has been learning at school, and took turns answering questions about what is important for us. We put it all together in a beautiful sentence that little D created.
We also added and defined some values that are important for us.
“We will serve God through life’s journey with humor, compassion, love and respect for one another.”
Respect: Listening, seeking to understand, caring and serving one another.
Humor: Laugh at ourselves, see life with optimism add jokes and fun.
Compassion: Think of others and reach to those who are hurting.
Adventure: Seek experiences, try new things and don’t be afraid to fail.
Affection: Kind words, hugs, snuggles, and besos.
Family: Time together.
We hope this will continue helping us create a family culture that will help us guide us in the same direction during the holidays and on years to come.
“Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.”- Proverbs 19:17
Generosity it’s about giving out of love, not out to mitigate guilt. When we love we give abundantly, when we feel guilty we make excuses.
This article of why we need to stop giving to the poor our leftovers does an excellent job explaining how and why we should give:
This article highlights two facts:
* We should care for other countries’ Industry and Development.
* The excess of junk we accumulate and feel the need to dump to the poor should remind us how much we are spending on ourselves. If we limit consumerism we’ll find out how much more we have to give.
So much easier said than done.
Our culture is designed to makes us feel like we are the ones lacking and must fill that void (With one more latte, a nicer car, a new nail polish, brand name clothing, a diet pill, a nicer gym, a bigger house, a better vacation, the latest gadget, the next best seller, etc.) effectively letting us forget that indeed we are wealthy beyond belief.
If love permeate everything we do, it will flow out of ourselves and make us truly generous. It is a journey.